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Magic Of The First Look

Jermaine Horton Photography

Congratulations on your engagement! As you embark on this beautiful journey together, one decision that often sparks debate among couples is whether or not to see each other before the ceremony. As a seasoned wedding planner, I'm here to shed some light on the wonderful tradition known as the "first look."

Picture this: It's the morning of your wedding day. Emotions are running high, nerves are kicking in, and your heart is beating fast. In the midst of all this excitement, the opportunity presents itself for you and your partner to share a private moment before the whirlwind of the day truly begins.

The first look is a cherished moment where you and your partner get to see each other for the first time on your wedding day, away from the crowd, cameras, and video recorders. It's a chance to embrace, to exchange a few words, and to soak in the overwhelming love and joy that you feel for one another.

But why consider a first look? For starters, it allows you to alleviate some of the pre-ceremony nervousness. Seeing each other beforehand can calm nerves and provide reassurance, knowing that you're about to embark on this journey together. It's also an opportunity to capture those raw, authentic emotions in a more intimate setting, away from the excitement of the ceremony.

Moreover, a first look can help streamline your wedding day timeline. By doing your photoshoot before the ceremony, you'll have more time to enjoy your cocktail hour and mingle with guests after the wedding ceremony. Plus, it frees up some of the post-ceremony stress, allowing you to focus on the celebration without feeling rushed.

Of course, the decision to have a first look ultimately comes down to personal preference. Some couples prefer to stick to tradition and save that special moment for the walk down the aisle, and that's perfectly okay too! It's all about what feels right for you as a couple.

Whether you choose to see each other before the ceremony or wait until you're standing at the altar, remember that your wedding day is about celebrating your love and commitment to each other. So, embrace the moments, cherish the memories, and know that the first look – whenever it may be – will be a beautiful start to your happily ever after.

Until next time…WEDologize!

Desiree Dent